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Hungarian government wants to combat gender propaganda with new law

LGBTQ Hungary

Hungarian governing party Fidesz could make even stricter “child protection” laws. Despite warnings from the EU, Fidesz controversially already passed laws conflating homosexuality and transgenderism with pedophile offenders.

The Hungarian government passed a law back in 2021 which prohibited showing LGBTQ+ content in schools or kid’s TV under the term “child protection” to defend Hungarian children from “gender propaganda”. 444.hu reports that even stricter laws are under consideration.

Back then, Amnesty International’s Hungarian director Dávid Víg condemned the ruling party’s amendments to the laws targeting child abuse. “Tagging these amendments to a bill that seeks to crack down on child abuse appears to be a deliberate attempt by the Hungarian government to conflate pedophilia with LGBTQ+ people,” the Guardian quoted his comments at the time.

The EU Commission also decided to refer Hungary to the Court of Justice of the EU over the law. In the referral, they cited that the bill “discriminates against people on the basis of their sexual orientation and gender identity.”

Orbán’s speech

Prime Minister Viktor Orbán recently talked about the issue in his state of the nation address.

“We don’t care that the world has gone mad. We don’t care what repulsive fads some people indulge in. We do not care what Brussels uses to excuse and explain the inexplicable. This is Hungary! And this is where the strictest child protection system in Europe should be!” – said the Prime Minister.

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Violent propaganda

After the recent Fidesz party meeting, Máté Kocsis, head of the party’s parliamentary caucus confirmed that they are indeed working on stricter law proposals.

According to Kocsis, “violent gender propaganda” is endangering Hungarian children. Therefore, the rights of parents to protect their children should be a priority. Kocsis stressed that there is a connection between gender propaganda and pedophilia.

He cites a recent instance, where a teaching assistant admitted on TikTok that he had an affair with a 15-year-old boy. Kocsis stressed that in Fidesz’s view, child protection must be given legal guarantees “that filter out and exclude these phenomena.” Kocsis acknowledged that they are expecting fierce national and European debates regarding Fidesz’s new proposals.

“Stay away from our children because there will be trouble!” – Kocsis warned.

Hungarian minister called Slovak foreign minister insane

Slovak foreign minister

Hungarian-Slovak relations have been made “difficult” as a caretaker government is in office in Bratislava, Gergely Gulyás, the prime minister’s chief of staff, said. The Slovak foreign minister should take the advice of Zsolt Németh, the head of parliament’s foreign affairs committee, and “see a doctor about his personal problems”, he added. Gulyás also said that the Slovak government consists many parties and, in such cases, they saw even Hungarians examples when fools acquired the top jobs. However, the majority of the Slovakian government does not share the views of their top diplomat about Hungary, he added.

In spite of growing international pressure on Hungary with regard to its stand on the war in Ukraine, the government’s position is unchanged: Hungary must stay out of the war, he said at a regular press briefing on Saturday.

As the tenth package of sanctions against Russia comes up for approval by the Council of the European Union and the war enters its second year, the situation must be assessed, Gulyás said. Europe is “drifting in the direction of war” and international pressure is growing on Hungary to change its position on issues on which it took decisions based on clear principles in the past year, he added.

Hungary’s interest remains unchanged: the country must stay out of the war, he said. That stand was decided by Hungarians in last year’s election, while opposition to sanctions was confirmed in a National Consultation survey, he said. Hungary continues to refuse to deliver weapons, and it calls for a ceasefire and peace talks as soon as possible, while helping refugees, Gulyás said. Gulyas said the government’s position remains that the responsibility for the war lies with Russia which violated international law and committed the aggression. Hungary is helping Ukraine financially, by humanitarian means and makes every effort to ensure that the ethnic Hungarians in Ukraine are affected as little as possible by the tragic situation, he added.

The government is convinced that there will be only losers in the war, nobody can win, and the longer the war lasts, the more human lives will be lost, while inconceivable damage is caused to the built and natural environment, Gulyás said. If Europe becomes involved in the war and NATO members participate in the conflict, it will bring the risk of World War III, so every effort must be made to prevent the escalation of the war, he added.

He said several “sober voices” had been heard in recent weeks: the Hungarian president met her US counterpart, along with eight other heads of state, and the Chinese proposed a peace plan. He also said that the latest employment data show 46,000 more people are working in Hungary today than a year ago, evidence of the strength of the economy even amid the high energy prices.

The effects of the sanctions on energy prices have been dramatic, Gulyás said, adding that this impacted food and services prices the most. Families and pensioners continue to be protected by utility price caps which the government will maintain, up to average consumption, throughout this year, he added. Companies are getting help with a plant rescue scheme and investment promotion support, he said.

The fiscal balance must be maintained and the government is committed to keeping the 3.9 percent deficit target, he said. Hungary is among the few countries in the European Union that succeeded in reducing the deficit in the elections years of 2014, 2018 and 2022, he added. Energy companies, banks, multinational retailers and pharmaceutical companies have benefited from higher energy prices and must make a bigger contribution to the budget, so they must pay a windfall profit tax this year, too, Gulyás said. The government is ready to negotiate with those companies on how they will pay the tax, but it must be paid, he added.

On another subject, he said a recent case put the issue of child protection in focus. When a teaching assistant abuses his position and students’ trust, it is “unacceptable and intolerable”, he added. When he boasts about this on social media, it is “pathological and nauseating”, he added. “Someone acting this way with a 14-15 year-old is clearly a paedophile and must be treated as one”, he said. He said rules on child protection must be reviewed. The interior minister has instructed authorities to conduct expedited, comprehensive and thorough probes in all such instances, he added.

The review of legal and criminal regulations, as well as the tightening of rules on child protection is the task of the government and the ruling parties’ parliamentary groups, he said. The number of child pornography cases has increased in recent years, except for a slight drop in 2022, he said. The matter of protecting children is among the “most important issues”, he said, adding that a referendum on the matter that coincided with the elections in the spring had garnered more support than any other issue, political topic or political party since 1989.

Asked what kind of international response the government expects from amendments to the child protection act, Gulyás said he expected common sense to be “the stronger side” on the matter in Brussels. If not, the physical and mental health of children must still be protected, he added.
Fielding questions on a political declaration lawmakers of ruling Fidesz-KDNP are submitting to parliament on their position on the war, Gulyás said he wouldn’t give up hope that opposition MPs would also back the resolution, but also noted they had supported delivery of weapons, till now.

Gulyás called a planned visit by Pope Francis to Hungary in April “a great honour” and a sign that the Vatican appreciates Hungary and its ties with the Catholic church. Touching on the issue of sanctions, he said Europe has “shot itself in the foot” by adopting restrictions affecting the area of energy, while “paying Russia the price of the war for this year and next”.

He said “technical preparations” are underway for a possible visit by Prime Minister Viktor Orban to Kyiv. The organisation of such a meeting should benefit both sides, he added. He noted the government’s criticism of Ukraine’s education act that places “all possible restrictions” on the use of Hungarian language. The timing for a possible summit could depend on Ukraine’s position on the matter, he added.

Gulyás said the government has not taken a decision yet on whether to establish national building materials companies, but it has discussed the draft of a construction sector bill. He confirmed that regulated household gas prices will remain unchanged until April 30, after which time new ones could be set depending on procurement volume and price. If reserves, which are 50 percent full at present, can be topped up with cheaper gas, new household prices will need to be set, he added.

Commenting on the applications of Finland and Sweden to join NATO, Gulyás said the new members would further strengthen the defence alliance, but also acknowledged increased risks, especially with regard to Finland’s geographical location. If Hungary commits to defend both countries, as NATO members, it expects them to explain why they have “slandered” the country in recent years, he added.
Gulyás said he will vote to ratify the accession of Finland and Sweden to NATO but also said “more respect” for Hungary is expected of both countries.

A parliamentary delegation that will visit both countries to address the matter will be led by deputy speaker Csaba Hende and include foreign affairs committee chair Zsolt Nemeth, he said.

Parliament will start debate of the ratification proposal on Tuesday and a vote is expected to be taken in the second half of March, he added.

Asked whether Hungary would allow weapons deliveries if they didn’t pass through Transcarpathia, in the west of Ukraine, Gulyás said “no”.

Returning to the matter of tighter rules regarding child protection, he said European practices are being studied to determine if regulations are in place that are stricter than the ones in Hungary. He added that he did not agree with a Constitutional Court ruling lowering the age of consent for same-sex partners from 18 to 14.

Asked about an impact study for a local campus of China’s Fudan University, Gulyás said the investment has been put on hold for the time being because of fiscal tightening. No planning is underway and the project is not advancing, he added.

He said the government has sent the text of legislation to Brussels addressing concerns raised by the European Commission over the judiciary and foundation universities.

He said talks on buying back Budapest’s international airport are underway and the government hopes to close the deal by year-end.

Asked why Hungary pressed for the removal of nine Russian business people from a list of sanctioned individuals, Gulyás said other countries had also protested the inclusion of people who were “in no way” connected to the war and had argued that severing ties with them was against their national interests.
Responding to a question on a request for Justice Minister Judit Varga to testify in a corruption case involving former state secretary Pal Volner and chief bailiff Gyorgy Schadl, Gulyás said witnesses don’t play a negative role in legal proceedings but can provide valuable information. Whether or not to hear a witness is up to the court, he added.

Hungary welcomes a recent announcement by the president of the European Commission on plans to strengthen border protection, he said, adding that Hungary has spent over 2 billion euros on border protection that benefits all of Europe.

Even though opinions in member states have “shifted” and a large number don’t want the EC to punish members states that protect their external borders and comply with Schengen commitments, Hungary still faces two infringement procedures regarding its compliance with rules on migration, he said. Dropping those infringement procedures and contributing funding to border protection is “indispensable” if the EC is to put its words into action, he added.

He said the EU’s tenth sanctions package does not affect nuclear energy, adding that Hungary would have vetoed it if it had.

Commenting on a recent visit to Budapest by the European Parliament’s Pegasus committee, he said that had the visit not cost European and Hungarian taxpayers so much money, it would have been “laughable”, but now is also “a little bit sad”. The matter is not in the scope of power of any EU institution, least of all that of the European Parliament, he added.

Gulyás said that, in legal terms, Russia was “100pc responsible” for the outbreak of the war; however, in political terms, he acknowledged a debate over whether the attack could have been avoided if NATO had offered a guarantee that Ukraine would not join the alliance.

Orbán wants to protect Hungarian kids against the gender ideology

LGBTQ Hungary

Prime Minister Viktor Orbán discussed education matters, with special emphasis on the protection of children against gender ideology, with Interior Minister Sándor Pintér in his office on Friday, the PM’s press chief said.

Commenting on a recent child abuse case at a school in Budapest’s 3rd district, Orbán said on Facebook that as a parent he was “deeply shocked and outraged” by the case. “As a politician, my job is to do everything possible to ensure that something like this should never happen again,” the prime minister said. “So, this afternoon I held talks with Interior Minister Sándor Pintér. The protection of our children comes first and is a top priority!”

Earlier in the day, Orbán said in a radio interview that he expected the interior minister to “make clear where the state officials whose job it is to look after our children are”. “We can only protect our children against gender ideology if we demonstrate the possible dangers, and that’s a state responsibility,” he added. “This gender ideology is not just fooling around … it is not just fun that boys dressed as girls and girls dressed as boys go into schools to ‘sensitize’ our children … this is a danger against which children must be protected,” he insisted.

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Magnificent downtown Budapest square to be renewed

The new climate conscious square in Budapest (1)

Hild Square in the 5th District, which is under renovation, did not exist as a public space at all earlier. The park will now be equipped with a public toilet, new benches, a community library and an accessible playground. The renovated area will be open to the public in the autumn.

The Municipality of the Capital (Főváros Önkormányzata) has handed over the responsibility for the operation of Hild Square to the Municipality of the City Centre (Belváros Önkormányzata), without providing any financial resources, to establish a community space for all age groups within it.

The Municipality of the City Centre voluntarily undertook the renovation with its own financial resources. They took into consideration the needs of the citizens, paying particular attention to the families living there. The primary target audience will be the 5th District and the community of the neighbouring kindergarten.

“By autumn 2023, we will have an age-neutral community space. It will be accessible and adapted to the needs of children with special needs. As part of our green approach, we will use unique solutions such as green roofs and vertical green space. We will also pay attention to water-saving solutions as part of our blue approach. 13 new trees will be planted, and the overall green area in the park will be increased from 24 to 37 percent, for a total of 851 m2 of space.

The playground will be decorated with the heroes of the Kuflik fairy tales, with play elements designed with the involvement of author András Dániel. Hild Square will be equipped with a public toilet, a baby changer table, a child-friendly drinking fountain and a humidifier. A ping-pong table, new benches, a community library, bicycle storage, waste bins, renewed public lighting, lockable gates and a 0-24-hour CCTV security system will also be established,” Péter Szentgyörgyvölgyi posted on Facebook.

Hild Square becomes green and climate-conscious

Due to management problems in the preceding years, the square and its playground needed a complete renovation. According to PestBuda, the district opposition’s approach that a few basic playground equipment, swings and climbing frames would be sufficient is contradictory to the green and climate-conscious development strategy of the Municipality of the City Centre.

In the climate-conscious approach, efforts have also been made to use green and water-saving solutions. This will be achieved by a water-waste-free automatic irrigation system that will provide water for the greenery using groundwater and rainwater. 13 new trees will be planted, some of which will be 15-20 metres tall, providing shade for the visitors. The green roof does not require a great deal of maintenance due to its undemanding nature. The planted bus stop has already been handed over in 2022, together with 11 other green bus stops. This initiative is part of the greening programme of bus stops in the district.

The Kuflik Hungarian animation series will occur in the elements of the playground (2)
Photo: Facebook/Kuflik, Dosa Ibolya

Author András Dániel, who contributed to the design of the playground’s elements by creating the Kuflik tales, has also been involved in designing the playground of the renewed 5th District Hild Square public park with his fantasy heroes.

Complicating factors in the renewal

One of the complicating factors is that several utility reconstruction projects have become due in the area. A greater complicating factor, however, is that the site of the project was occupied by a telephone exchange building earlier. The remains of it have been demolished but the basement level has only been buried. The complete removal of the remains would threaten the trees, therefore, the rehabilitation of the site will not be complete. Instead, the area will be completely replaced with soil to a depth of 2,500 mm. This will not yet endanger the trees and their stability, and will be carried out by using special technology under the supervision of a tree specialist.

The developments of the Municipality of the City Centre have won both domestic and international awards. They hope that after the renovation, this community space will become a new favourite hangout spot for the residents.

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Shocking: Hungarian 15-year-old boy attempted to rape a 5-year-old child

Police Arrest Sexual Predator 2

And that kid was not the only victim of the 15-year-old boy who was diagnosed with adolescent conduct disorder. He tried to rape at least three other children in two different Hungarian orphanages.

According to Blikk, the public prosecutor of Somogy County raised charges against a 15-year-old Hungarian boy who sexually harassed his mates in two Hungarian orphanages.

The perpetrator was raised by foster parents for most of his life. In 2020, he was placed in an orphanage, where he broke the rules and had multiple conflicts with the kids and the caretakers.

On December 2021, he tricked a 5-year-old to come into his room and then locked the door. Following that, he proceeded to force his body on top of the small kid. Thankfully, one of the teachers interrupted the act by trying to enter the room.

However, he sexually harassed two other kids in another orphanage, the public prosecutor believes. He assaulted one of them multiple times and even attempted to rape his victim, but the terrified child burst out yelling. It apparently made the boy second-guess his intentions and eventually he escaped the room.

In the case of the 11-year-old victim, however, he did manage to carry out the horrific act.

The juvenile defendant has been in custody since the start of the process. Prosecutors intend to send him to a penitentiary, their statement claimed. The statement did not specify the gender of the victims though.

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Hungary to send food packages to Lebanese children

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Food packages to some 1,000 children have left Warsaw for Lebanon in a move organised by the Hungarian embassy in Warsaw and supported by the Hungary Helps programme, the embassy told a press conference on Friday.

Polish Education Minister Przemyslaw Czarnek thanked Hungary for its contributions to the programme, adding that the Polish government would launch another similar programme early next year.

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Budapest to host Ukraine’s international children’s circus festival

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Budapest’s Capital Circus will host the Yaskrava Arena Dnipra international children’s circus festival between 2 and 3 January, which is usually held in Dnipropetrovsk in Ukraine, organisers said on Wednesday.

The festival launched in 2010 will see productions by children from the regions of Kharkiv, Kyiv, Odessa, Donetsk and Zaporizhzhia in Ukraine, and from Hungary, Switzerland, Italy and Mexico, festival director Olga Oblashova said. The winners will go on to compete in other festivals. The event seen as a springboard to prestigious establishments worldwide, she said.

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“Children boom” needed in Hungary to sustain development?

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A turnaround in demographic trends is crucial for the long-term social development and economic sustainability of Hungary and Europe, and this requires a predictable, targeted and flexible family policy, Justice Minister Judit Varga said on Friday.

The basic principle of family policy in Hungary is that families should not suffer any financial disadvantages as a result of having children. Rather, they should benefit from it, Varga told a conference held on the subject in Budapest. Families are eligible for special support in Hungary, with over 5 percent of GDP given to families raising children last year, which puts the country in the leading group among the OECD member countries on this score, she added.

State secretary in charge of families Ágnes Hornung told the event that the government planned to “fine-tune” family policy measures to encourage more births and improve families’ financial circumstances. The aim is to ensure that all families who want children should be able to fulfil their desire and parents should be able to maintain a good balance of family and work.

Ever since 2010, the government has been making efforts to offer predictability to families, she said. “A complex and well-prepared system has been developed by the family-friendly government to support families, but this does not mean that no changes would be needed or it would be impossible to make changes,” she added.

US conservatives see Hungary’s family policy exemplary?

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Hungary is taking over the secretarial duties of the Geneva Consensus Declaration from Brazil, organisers told a conference on the second anniversary of the founding of the cooperation aiming to help women and the family.

At the conference held in the US Senate building in Washington, DC, Szabolcs Takács, Hungary’s Ambassador to the US, said Hungary had been proud to join the initiative “representing the most important values”.

Hungary’s Fundamental Law, adopted in 2011, sees marriage and the family as the foundation of the nation’s survival, he said. Protection of life, the family, and the nation are central elements of the Fundamental Law, he said.

In a statement to public media after the conference, Takács said Hungarian family policy is seen as an “example to be followed” by an increasing number of US conservatives.

The Geneva Consensus Declaration, aiming to protect families and women, was initiated by US Secretary of State Mike Pompeo during Donald Trump’s presidency and adopted in October 2020. It currently has 37 signatories. The Biden administration later withdrew the US from the initiative.

PHOTOS: A special playground has been built in Budapest

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A new reform-era playground has been built in the 12th district of Budapest. It includes, among others, a steamboat, a chain bridge and a cogwheel.

In October 2022, the newest playground of Hegyvidék was inaugurated in Hollósy Simon Street in the 12th district. The playground presents the achievements of the reform era in the form of play elements.

The playground was built with the involvement of local residents. The park may be familiar to locals because of the long-standing camel statue (which is why it used to be called the camel playground). The statue remains, but the playground has been completely renovated.

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Source: Facebook/Karácsony Gergely

The toys are made by the Ilona Mill Workshop (Ilona-malom Műhely). Children can learn about the achievements and great figures of the reform era on the site, and older children will find lots of information about the era on spectacular displays, minimatine.hu reports.

There is also a play area for the little ones, with a mini slide, baby and nest swings, spring horses, a sandpit and a mini bike track around the boat. Parents can also sit comfortably on the benches around the trees. There are also toilets and a fountain in the playground.

reform era playground budapest
Source: Facebook/Karácsony Gergely

Hollósy Simon street is located in the 12th district between Böszörményi Street and Németvölgyi Street. It can be easily reached from Déli railway station by tram nr. 59 (a few minutes walk from the Királyhágó Square stop). Zsuzsanna Szalay-Szakály was the landscape architect who intregrated the needs expressed during the community planning process. The elements of the reform-era theme chosen by the district were designed by Viola Pikó of the Ilona-Mill Workshop.

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Source: Facebook/Karácsony Gergely
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Expat mums share their experiences living in Hungary II

Expat mums share their experiences living in Hungary II

If you are reading this, you are most likely an expat mum. Even though there is a multitude of positive aspects to living abroad, it does come with its challenges. Sometimes it can help to read stories of other expat mums on how they dealt with the initial difficulties when they moved to Hungary. While you are here, don’t forget to check out the first part of this series! 

Claudia (38) – Germany

I relocated to Hungary 6 years ago when my husband got transferred here for his job. Both of my two children were born in Budapest. The first birth was pretty depressing and stressful. The doctor was not around much, the birth nurse was cold and clinical and they brought in medical students without even asking! But in that hospital, they were lovely with the new mothers and babies. The second time was better because I paid a nice nurse to be with me throughout the birth. However, the women in the nursery looking after the babies were horrible to the new mothers. Both hospitals had dirty showers and bathrooms with no toilet paper. I had a miscarriage in a third hospital and it was awful – no one came when I was bleeding heavily even though I rang the bell several times. I ended up staggering around the corridor looking for a nurse who then told me off! Doctors are generally nice here but the support staff is horrible.

The lack of English speakers in the country made it very hard to find babysitters, deal with nurseries, etc. I had to learn Hungarian fast to cope, which was not easy as I had to juggle family life and my start-up business. I struggled to find friends with the same mindset and interests. Here, most mothers set mediocre goals, they lack the drive and ambition to achieve more career-wise. They believe they made it in life once they got married and had a couple of children – at least, that was my impression having talked with some of them in public playgrounds. 

Our children haven’t reached the age yet to attend school. The kindergarten we found is Ok-ish though, in terms of staff, extra activities, trips, building and services. However, I don’t like the fact of how little attention they pay to the kids’ diets. Fattening foods with little nutritional value, too many sweets and poor variety. I don’t have experience of being in another country as a parent so it’s hard for me to say much regarding pros and cons but surely maternity leave length and all tax benefits are helpful. 

I didn’t find the local community very helpful. We mostly have expat friends we’ve met through my husband’s job. Personally, I haven’t experienced any racism but I’ve seen Roma people being treated differently in public places.

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Saloni (45) – India

We relocated with my whole family to Hungary. I already had my two sons at that time, therefore,  have no experience with maternity hospitals. We don’t earn that much to afford international private institutes, therefore, it was tough to find schools that fit our needs and to settle our bilingual children into a solely Hungarian-speaking environment. I also struggled myself feeling socially isolated. Hungarians are kind of reserved and often keep to themselves. You would assume that after many years working at the same company, your colleagues invite you for a coffee every now and then after work, but instead everyone just rushes home barely saying goodbye once the office hours are over. 

We have mixed experience with primary schools, it depends very much on the class teacher. We were lucky that ours were nice, but the kids still did not enjoy it. Schools are traditional, with very little time to socialise or interact. Over-assessment and lots of tests are common. The curriculum is fixed by the government and they choose the books. There is very little room for freedom or creativity. Luckily, our kids adapted well enough to this old-fashioned education model. However, pity that most of the people employed in the educational sector do not speak proper English.

Sometimes people, mainly elderly women, on the bus in my district make comments when they hear us speaking English with my sons. We were quite shocked each time it happened. My older son had some trouble feeling different from other kids as no one else was bilingual in his class but he was also doing ballet, for which he was ridiculed. One of my younger son’s teachers said that kids like my son who speak two languages can’t speak either of them properly. This was in a bilingual school!! Some teachers tried to downgrade my sons’ English and critique them often, seemingly to get the upper hand. Amazing that an English teacher would be jealous of a kid!

Elodie (26) – France

I came to study in Hungary when I was 18 and I met my partner at the university. Later on, I started working as a French teacher and we decided to stay here to be close to my mother-in-law. 

I had been several times to Hungarian public hospitals but  I can’t say they were good experiences due to communication problems. That is why we bought maternity care and birth packages in a private hospital. The staff speak English well, treat patients better, they’re kinder, hospitals are cleaner, no queues ( because you should make an appointment beforehand). But the service fee is too expensive, and if any problem occurs they would send the patient to public hospitals. Also, in case of any emergency, they direct you to a public hospital. Private hospitals can’t take pregnant women into labor before 36 weeks of pregnancy. Personal experience: during my pregnancy, I got severe pain, we went to the private hospital where I was supposed to give birth later on. They couldn’t find the reason. My gynecologist advised me to go directly to a public hospital. We went to Péterfy Sándor Hospital, where they eventually found the cause of the pain. 

Living in Hungary has both negative and positive aspects. My daughter has a food allergy and we really struggled to find alternative food, especially when we take a trip to the countryside. There are not many low-floor BKK vehicles while stairs are everywhere (metro, shops…). It makes transportation difficult with a buggy. On a positive note, the environment is safe and there are many playgrounds in my neighbourhood. 

I’ve made two Hungarian friends at the park but we don’t really keep in touch. I also met a French friend who has a two-year-old son and was expecting his second baby at the same time I was. We’ve really bonded over the past year. It’s not necessarily easy to make Hungarian friends as they don’t speak English and learning Hungarian, when you are a busy mom, is quite difficult but I am trying. I haven’t really faced any discrimination while living here. The closest is that sometimes people have strong reactions to us speaking French or English, but those are more often positive or silly than negative.

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PHOTOS: Centre for Hungarian children opened in Slovenia

Centre for Hungarian children Slovenia

Árpád János Potápi, the state secretary in charge of policies for Hungarian communities abroad, inaugurated a children’s preschool development centre built with Hungarian government support in Radamos, in north-eastern Slovenia, on Tuesday.

The centre has been built with the aim to provide help to preschool children in need with their development, Potápi told public media in the town. The facility will provide care for children, Hungarian and Slovenian, coming also from Lendava (Lendva) and other towns and villages in Slovenia’s Prekmurje (Muravidek) region, he said.

The centre cost 276 million forints (EUR 660,000) to build within the framework of the Carpathian Basin nursery development scheme, the state secretary said.

Here are some photos:

Photos: facebook.com/potapiarpad

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Expat mums share their experiences living in Hungary

Expat mums share their experiences living in Hungary

We have asked our readers about various aspects of parenting as an expat in Hungary and they were kind enough to give us a thorough inside. Here are three stories from expat mums living in Hungary on their initial struggles moving here, experiences with the local health care system and general view on education. We have also touched on the topics of racism, dealing with a language barrier and creating a social circle. 

Barbara (39) – Colombia

“I’ve been living in Hungary for almost 10 years now. I met the love of my life back in my hometown, Cartagena. After a few months of a long-distance relationship and several visits to Budapest, I decided to extend my vacation for a lifetime. Once we found out that we were expecting, 8 years ago, we decided to do the entire journey with the public system and opted for Szent János Kórház (Saint John Hospital) in the 12th district. And I couldn’t wish for a more fantastic experience! Even though I had a high-risk pregnancy, I kept my calm throughout the whole time thanks to the lovely and professional nurses. I even made a lifelong friend in one of the Spanish-speaking doctors. I was treated with great care and respect even at the time of the two false labour alarms. I had a nice labour room with a jacuzzi, a well-equipped bathroom, a sound system and a pilates ball; overall it was very calming. I communicated with the staff members either in English or by using sign language plus Google translator. 

What I like about Hungary is that it’s a very safe, green and family-oriented country. We didn’t have to go broke to give birth in a pricey private hospital nor sell all our belongings just to make ends meet with a baby. You can go all around the city with a stroller as the pavement is in good condition. I’m still trying to find cons. So far, I have no personal experience with the education system as my son is currently home-schooled. 

When it comes to socializing, I have a huge need for it. I consider myself lucky as I’ve got a big circle of friends who support me at all times. I did try to reach out to expat mums though as my Hungarian friends have older children. I’ve managed to find some Brazilian mums and we regularly organise playdates. 

If you ask whether we have ever experienced racism in Hungary, I can give you a mixed answer. My son has luckily never been the subject of bullying, however, as I have brownish skin I’m often taken for a gypsy. Nevertheless, I can’t judge the entire nation just for some idiots. Most Hungarians tend to be super nice to me.”

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Sophie (45) – United States

“I moved to Hungary because my husband is Hungarian-American and we wanted our kids to speak Hungarian. Plus, there are things I like better about living here compared to the US. We also opted for Hungary because education is much cheaper here than back in the States. 

We have three kids and our youngest daughter was born in Budapest. I picked an English-speaking doctor who had one of the lowest C-section rates and was pro-natural birth. Same for the midwife, both of them were lovely and listened to all my wishes. My issue was that I gave birth during the toughest part of the pandemic so I found myself alone with the baby for 3 days at the hospital and the nurses didn’t speak English so I hated my stay. I felt very lonely and abandoned by the staff. There’s a lot of room for improvement in terms of warmth and hospitality. I also wanted to speak to a lactation consultant while there but there was no one available. 

Talking about initial struggles.. Well, finding the right kindergarten and school took a lot of research. We’ve opted for private education and have been very happy with our choices. I’ve heard that traditional Hungarian kindergarten makes all kids take a nap during the day, which would’ve meant my youngest would’ve been up half the night as she dropped her naps early. Also, Hungarian kids don’t really have long school days until they’re older, which must be really difficult for working parents to navigate. 

There is a crazy bureaucracy with government paperwork and the staff is often unfriendly. I also had to get used to accepting the more limited and lower-quality food options. The public medical system is just sheer awful. 

I do love that Hungarians are so family-friendly, much more so than in the US. Even at the airport, you feel looked after when you have small children. On the other hand, I dislike being judged for not wrapping my children up in hats, scarves, snowsuits and/or 14 layers of wool as soon as the temperature drops below 57°F (14°C). I miss certain opportunities that are widely available in the States but come at such a premium here, such as sports activities like swimming and gymnastics. 

We have a mixed circle, both local and expat friends. As long as my kids were dressed to their approval the community was welcoming. I haven’t experienced racism. A lot of things are harder to navigate as a non-Hungarian who doesn’t speak the language well, and I occasionally feel some dislike, but not to the level of discrimination. I’m white so, I guess, they just take me for a Hungarian, at first.”

 

Yashma (32) – Pakistan 

“My husband and I moved here 7 years ago. I gave birth in a public hospital that was really in need of renovation. The medical personnel was attentive but didn’t speak much English. What is it like living in Hungary with a child? For pros, I would say that it feels like there’s reasonable cultural respect for having a family, in terms of attitudes from people when I was pregnant / am out with my daughter. People always offered a seat on public transport when seeing my belly. Another positive thing to mention is that children are still children here, and aren’t old before their time. As for cons, as we are non-EU citizens, we have to pay a huge amount of money for a baby TAJ card (the Hungarian health insurance card). Even if you visit a private doctor quite often, still it seems a cheaper option compared to the TAJ card fee. Without a TAJ number, you don’t get government support.  Of course, even when going to the district doctor for the monthly healthcare checks or vaccinations, we pay.

After 5 long years living in Budapest, now I can say that I have a steady local circle. Before kindergarten, it was mainly international. Facebook expat groups can be also helpful to meet like-minded people and other mums who have kids of similar age. 

As a Muslim mother who wears a hijab, I wouldn’t say I have experienced something nasty since I have been living here. I do get some stares from time to time on the tram 4/6. The only thing that bothers me though is the locals’ general unwillingness to make an effort when I encounter a language barrier. It happens mostly when I have to deal with public services such as Kormányablak, tax authority, etc. I believe for 3rd country nationals, these things are even more complicated, especially as all the official documents have to be translated into Hungarian. Also, for example, I was not allowed/approved to take a loan because I am not a citizen nor do I have permanent residence. However, I understand the merits of why they are not allowing it – or why it takes so many layers of approval.”

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The number of Hungarians continue to wane

Family Család Baba Baby

Preliminary data show that 8,073 children were born and 10,224 people died in August 2022, with the number of live births decreasing by 1.5 percent and deaths by 8.1 percent in September 2021-August 2022 compared with the same period a year earlier, the Central Statistical Office (KSH) said on Friday.

The natural population loss was 2,151 in August this year as against 1,531 in August 2021, KSH said. In August 2022, 7,952 couples tied the knot, down 14 percent from August 2021. In the past 12 months, 90,636 children were born, down 1.5 percent from the same period of last year, while 144,889 people died, 8.1 percent fewer than in the previous year.

The natural population loss came to 54,253 compared with 65,715 in the same period of last year, a drop of 17 percent. Between September 2021 and August 2022, 67,045 couples were married, 8.1 percent fewer than in the previous year.

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Woke and LGBTQ propagandists don’t respect our children, says Hungarian president in US

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True freedom means being able to freely choose, speak, think and live without having to “follow the mainstream”, President Katalin Novák said on the 7th day of her visit to the United States.

Novák said in a speech on Monday local time at Benedictine College in Kansas that the fulcrum of her own freely chosen conservative values involved protecting of human life and supporting families.

She said an individual is defined as a part of creation and is aware of his own limitations. Also, achieving individuality is not the ultimate aim; rather the individual lives as part of a community and should respect other members of the community, she added.

Regarding the protection of human life, Novák emphasised the role of education “which teaches the beauty of human life and the point at which human life begins”. Thanks to government measures in Hungary, pregnant women considering an abortion must attend counselling twice to consider the decision, the president noted. Family benefits are available to pregnant women, and the government has made the adoption process easier, she added.

Meanwhile, fully 6.2 percent of GDP is spent on family support, Novák said.

Hungary’s constitution states that a marriage is defined as between a man and a woman, and that the mother is a woman and the father is a man, she noted.

Referring to the Hungarian Child Protection Act, Novák said

the law states that parents have the primary responsibility for raising their children, and acts as a bulwark against the dangers of “woke and LGBTQ” propagandists. “They don’t respect us,” she said. “They don’t respect our children.”

Asked about a European Commission proposal to suspend EU funding, Novák referred to a recent speech given by Ursula von der Leyen, the European Commission’s president, at Princeton University regarding the expected outcome at the time of the Italian elections and their consequences: von der Leyen said that Brussels had the means to deal with Italy just as it had done in Hungary and Poland’s case. Novák said the EC president’s response suggested that voters were “punished for electing leaders” that were not to others’ taste.

“This looks to me totally undemocratic,” Novák said.

The Hungarian president was handed an award by Stephen Minnis, the college’s head, named after Pope John Paul II.

Novák’s US visit ends on Tuesday in Cleveland at an event for local Hungarians.

PHOTOS: Hungary’s President plays with kids, runs with soldiers, plays foosball

Hungarian President playing running

Hungary now has chreches in over 1,000 localities, in three times more than a decade ago, Hungarian President Katalin Novak said in Hernádnémeti, in northeast Hungary, on Thursday.

Inaugurating a new creche in the village, Novák said the 290 million forint (EUR 720,000) investment was a sign “of our trust and belief in the future, and that we build for the children of the future.” Hungary’s education system currently offers four types of creches for children under the age of three, she said.

Hernádnémeti’s independent mayor, Zsolt Orosz, said that the 700sqm creche was built with 274 million forints of domestic funding, with the local authority contributing 15 million forints of its own resources. The creche will provide for 48 small children, he said.

President Novák visited the Hungarian soldiers serving in Kosovo yesterday. She started the day with a run and even played foosball with the soldiers. She also met with her Kosovo counterpart, Vjosa Osmani.

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Budapest to host several hundreds of children from the Ukrainian capital

Ukrainian children Budapest camp

The number of Ukrainian refugees staying in care centres operated by the municipality of Budapest is stagnating at about 300, the deputy mayor of the city said on Thursday.

School education ensured for the refugees in Budapest

A large number of refugees, however, are “invisible” as there is no public information about them, Ambrus Kiss told an informal round-table. Based on information by international organisations and social media platforms, there were about 43,000 Ukrainian refugees staying in Budapest in mid-August, he said.

School education has been ensured for every refugee children coming from Ukraine, Kiss said, adding that at the request of Kyiv, two camps operated by the municipality in Budapest will host several hundreds of children from the Ukrainian capital next month. Kiss said the city council had so far spent 87 million forints (EUR 213,000) on providing shelter to refugees and another 145 million on providing meals to them.

Over 17,000 refugees arrive from Ukraine on Thursday

Fully 7,192 people crossed into Hungary directly from Ukraine on Thursday, while another 10,291 from Ukraine crossed from Romania, the national police headquarters (ORFK) said. Police issued temporary residence permits valid for thirty days to 414 people, ORFK told MTI on Friday.

Holders of such permits must contact a local immigration office near their place of residence within thirty days to apply for permanent documents, it added. Budapest received 229 people, 81 children among them, by train, ORFK said.

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Want to help Ukrainian children fled to Hungary? Here you can do it!

Parasolka charity refugee Ukraine

Parasolka is a charity group organizing after school events for the guests from Ukraine who arrived to Hungary after the Russian invasion began. Below you can read their introduction and how you can help them.

“We are Parasolka from Budapest, Hungary. Short fun fact: parasolka mean umbrella in Ukrainian. We chose this word because we are trying to protect our kids from the rain of life.

Nah , that was a lie. We just like this word, try to say it out loud. Doesn’t it sound like something you could name your girlfriend? Anyway what we are doing is we are trying to give back some of the childhood back to the kids who had to flee their homes because of the war.

We are organizing picnics, taking them to the zoo, organizing camps and drawing lessons etc.

All this of course free of charge for them.

You can find out more about our activities and see photos and videos from our events on our PAGE 

Or you can help us keep running this project by sending a few bucks HERE”

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